ARE THERE PERFECT LADIES

One may wonder what i mean by perfect a perfect lady, when idealy there are no perfect human on earth. But from we the guys corner, there are certain qualities that we term good that qualifies a lady to be our miss perfect. Few of these qualities are what i have listed below:

DEPENDENCY: A real lady shouldn’t be 100% dependent on her man. She should be able to be independent to an extent. Days are gone when people marry liability in the good name of love. Show him that you are the help meet that God created for him and not a burden to him. Learn to do something by yourself and don’t always wait for him to pay all your bills.

EMOTIONAL: she should be emotionally stable. Not one that goes from sweet to rude to obnoxious. Learn to be emotionally stable, or else he will start avoiding you. And becomes sick and tired of your worries and complains.

LIES: You the woman should not be a liar. She should be one that tells you the truth no matter if the skies are falling down. Stand on the truth and let the truth always prevail and when he has come to know you for that he can die for your course.

COMMON INTEREST: Every man needs a woman that share the same common interest as they do. He wants you to be a support to his dreams and visions. No matter how awkward his dreams are, learn to share lights and make him feel like a man and then you could help guide him right. Help him realize his dreams and make him feel like the man he was created to be.

BAD MANAGER: Every man wants his future wife to be one that manages his scarce resources effectively. She should not be the type that squanders his wealth on luxuries instead of encouraging you to make investments. Even if you met him living an extravagant lifestyle, help him to be a better man. Encourage him to safe and invest money not helping him squander it up.

RUDE BEHAVIOR: A good lady should be one that respects her man, his family, and his friends. Not a rude lady that’s disrespects all. It may not be very easy for career ladies, but you must learn to respect your man no matter how small he is in size, income or less educationally he is to you. Respect they say is reciprocal.

GOOD DRESS SENSE: Every woman should have a great dress sense. She should dress fine, gorgeous but modestly. Not the show me all your body kind of dress. Always make him want you more and always make him feel proud of having you in his life. Don’t disgust him after he has gotten you with bad dressing.

FEAR OF GOD: A wife material should be one that fears God. Fear God here means to know what is right and do them and know what is wrong and not do them. Put God first in all that you do. No matter how fast the society is changing, the place of God cannot be over-estimated.

GOOD COOK: You as a woman should know how to cook and you do not know how to, you should show willingness to learn. Beauty without a good food is near to zero.